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    33 Days in Europe SeriesTravel

    My Red Pillow Method: How I Planned a 33-Day Europe Trip

    An Entry in the 33 Days in Europe Series
    by Deborah Bass Published: June 22, 2025

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    What you have never seen, you find where you have never been.”     

    Unknown (possibly African proverb)

     

    This is part of the 33 Days in Europe series—your starting point is the hub page here.

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    Planning a trip can be overwhelming. When I first started traveling, I didn’t even know where to begin. Over the years, I’ve developed a more intuitive way to approach travel—one that helps everything fall into place. I call it the Red Pillow Method.

    The Red Pillow Method: Choose One Thing

    Years ago, when I was out and about, I came across a picture I loved. It didn’t match anything in my home—not the style, not the color—but I hung it in the guest bathroom anyway. That picture led to a full remodel: custom tile, a new vanity, a handcrafted mirror from Pier One. That one picture became the catalyst for redoing the whole house. My husband Ron still jokes, “We remodeled the entire house based on a single picture.”

    That picture held a feeling. I couldn’t describe it at the time, but I knew it was right.

    That’s how I plan trips now—big or small. I choose one thing—a single anchor—and build everything around it.
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    Rise To The Occasion

    The grace in grit
    by Deborah Bass Published: June 12, 2025

    “Rise to the occasion,” she said. She didn’t mean it as some inspiring, let’s-all-sing-Kumbaya-in-a-group-hug kind of encouragement. …

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    5 Things I’m looking Forward To This Summer (After A Hard Year)

    by Deborah Bass Published: May 28, 2025

    It’s been exactly a year since Ron and I began our 5-Week Epic European Excursion, traveling through …

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    Dinner at Attraversiamo: Brentwood’s Delight

    by Deborah Bass Published: May 21, 2025

      Attraversiamo means ‘let’s cross over’ in Italian. It’s usually used when crossing the street or passing …

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    Why I Keep a “Love” File

    And How Compliments Make a Difference
    by Deborah Bass Published: May 15, 2025

      I keep a file called “Deb’s Love.” It’s nothing fancy—just a simple folder filled with cards. …

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    Poltergeists & Paper Cuts: Learning to Love the Irritating Stuff

    And enhancing my marriage
    by Deborah Bass Published: May 5, 2025

      The kitchen scene transports me to the one in the horror movie The Sixth Sense where …

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    Tearing Pages & Finding Heart: How I Fell in Love with Used Books

    by Deborah Bass Published: April 29, 2025

      My new hobby is perusing used bookstores for books to use in making art. To be …

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    If You Don’t Ask, the Answer is Always No

    by Deborah Bass Published: April 3, 2025

        A long time ago, I came across this little gem of advice—I can’t remember where—and …

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  • As I See ItBeauty & FashionHouse & Home

    My Garden Flowers are Blooming Their Way Into Spring

    by Deborah Bass Published: March 28, 2025

    Just this week, I’ve worn my Uggs* and my fuzzy sweater, my open-toed sandals, and my boots …

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    Painting Over Memories: Letting Go of a Family Home

    by Deborah Bass Published: March 19, 2025

    I lay down a stroke of whitish paint—Swiss Coffee—over the dark teal wainscoting in my mother-in-law’s kitchen, …

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  • As I See ItHouse & Home

    Wild Birds and Wild Cats: Drama in My Garden

    by Deborah Bass Published: March 13, 2025

      This morning, the sun cast a wave of light across my lawn, spotlighting two doves beneath …

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    My Favorite Bird Seed & Feeder

    by Deborah Bass Published: March 12, 2025

    I love these bird feeders for their quick-clean feature. Simply squeeze the tabs at the bottom to …

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    Mother’s Day Nostalgia: Bracing for Impact

    by Deborah Bass Published: March 4, 2025

    Each Mother’s Day, I brace for impact. Not because I am a mother, but because I had …

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    50 by 60 UPDATE: 50 things to do before I turn Sixty

    by Deborah Bass Published: February 26, 2025

    In March 2021, at 59 years old, well into the COVID pandemic, I created a list 50 …

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    The Star Wars Principle

    You had to be there
    by Deborah Bass Published: February 19, 2025

    I’m on a mission to read all the famous forever books and see the most revered movies—those …

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Writer. Miner of meaning. Beautiful things seeker. I write about whatever sparks inspiration or brings joy—things that make my solar plexus twirl—travel, art, urban expeditions, and the human experience, as well as tougher topics like dark history. I don’t flinch from the hard stuff. Mostly, I love to open hearts and ignite emotion.

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Deborah Bass
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